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Stop Overthinking in 5 Minutes

  • Writer: Shena Taleon
    Shena Taleon
  • Oct 13
  • 2 min read





Have you ever found yourself lying awake at night, replaying a conversation from earlier in the day and analyzing every single word? Or maybe you're stuck in a loop of "what-ifs," unable to move forward with a decision. If this sounds familiar, this blog post is for you. We're going to explore how to rewire your brain to stop overthinking, and it only takes 5 minutes.



Overthinking isn't a personality flaw; it's your brain getting stuck in "analysis paralysis." You're desperately trying to find the perfect solution, avoid pain, or predict every possible outcome. This constant loop activates your amygdala, the brain's "alarm system," keeping you on edge. It's like trying to navigate with a glitchy GPS—you're moving, but you're not actually getting anywhere.



The good news is that your brain is highly adaptable. It learns through repetition. Every time you overthink, you're strengthening a neural pathway, much like carving a trail in the woods. To break this cycle, you don't need to erase your thoughts; you just need to reroute them. The key principle to remember is: "Neurons that fire together, wire together." By creating new, healthier patterns, you can weaken the old ones.

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Here's a simple, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)-backed method to stop overthinking in its tracks:


Step 1: Write it down. Do a "brain dump" and write down every single spiraling thought that's on your mind. No filter, no judgment.


Step 2: Ask this question. Go through your list and ask yourself: "What part of this is actually in my control?"


Step 3: Reframe. Challenge your negative thoughts. Instead of thinking, "What if it goes wrong?" reframe it to, "What if I can handle it?"


Step 4: Redirect. Overthinking is a mental loop, so interrupt it with a physical action. Stand up, stretch, or touch something cold. This grounds you in the present moment.


Step 5: Repeat tomorrow. Consistency is key. By practicing this simple hack daily, you'll start to create a new, healthier mental pathway.



For an extra boost, try this simple trick: Label your thoughts. Instead of saying, "I'm a failure," try saying, "I'm having a thought that I'm a failure." This small shift creates distance between you and your thoughts, reminding you that you are the observer, not the thought itself.



A Final Thought



Overthinking is your brain's attempt to keep you safe. You can thank it for its efforts and then gently ask it to rest. By starting with just 5 minutes a day, you can begin to rewire your brain and break free from the overthinking loop.

 
 
 

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